Your Relationship and Your Ex

By Devin Sanders

Flowers bloom and flowers wither. The sun rises up but it goes down at the end of the day. All things that begin eventually ends at some point in time. The same goes for relationships. Relationships begin, and there are unfortunate instances, that they inevitably end with one of the individuals in the relationship in a losing end.

When these things take place, one tends to question his or herself with: "What went wrong? What did I do wrong? Where did I go wrong?" and they become absorb in the denial stage.

With this, the person is overwhelmed by a strong emotional trauma leading to making effort to get back their exes though its is not always the right decision depending on the reason of break up but it sometimes happens. Everything in the name of love.

Truth be told that winning back an ex is not a walk in the park and may even cause the person trying to win back the ex more heartaches and may even cause the previous paramour to even more distance himself or herself from the aggrieved party.

For one, relationships end because something didn't work out well in the relationship and though both individuals are responsible for the relationship's outcome, the catalyst of a break-up may stem from several possible factors such as third party intrusion, simple misunderstanding, pride, family intrusions, financial instability, insecurity and whatnot.

Also, when one of the people in the relationship breaks off, it just means that he or she wants it over and is unlikely to accept working out the relationship. It leads to not being receptive anymore and can be aggravated by other person's efforts to get back with the ex.

Now, how does one win back an ex? People need to first cool themselves after being burned out in the previous relationship and this is the time wherein they want to reflect about their decision and explore the world of singlehood for answers before making any final decisions if they really no longer want to go back to their exes.

Though it is important to note that the possibility of an ex getting back to their partner is also based on the amount of love and trust on each other and their willpower to work out the relationship. If an ex has given up and fall out of love completely then it could be a difficult issue.

Even if there is hope of winning back your ex, take note of the signs that may indicate that your ex is still into you or not. You can determine it by being attentive and opinionated. - 30292

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