You can avoid a breakup with your lover if you are aware of the warning signs. There are some similar symptoms of trouble that can be observed in all relationships.
1) You are being ignored by your partner.
This does not mean that your partner is not talking to you. Loosing interest in the other person and not worrying about how they are or their where abouts, is the point that I am trying to make. It's almost like two ships that are passing by each other, and so may be now you need to work on your love life.
So stop here and contemplate why is your partner ignoring you? You probably forgot their birthday or some other special event? Are you loving your partner enough these days? Is there a possibility of they feeling neglected? These could be reactions to earlier events also. Although this may be their viewpoint, but you should be understanding enough and make them feel happy for the sake of love.
Surprise them with a meal out and talk about what the problem is. Try to ask them why are they grumpy and for heaven sake phrase that nicely? It could be a totally different problem that they are worried about and not your relationship. Communication is not always what it should be like in a relationship, but one has to talk. It might just lead you somewhere.
2) Your partner is not interested to go out with you or see you.
You should be warned if suddenly your lover is behaving in a very busy manner and is unavailable for you. And so you need to find out why they are avoiding you because there will be a reason for that also. You can't be a doormat or worst a bedmat. Please take these signals seriously, otherwise you might be reading a breakup letter soon!
3) Distance is being maintained by your partner in the bedroom
Although sex might just be a three letter word it could be hugely problematic. Any couple who has spent a long time together will tell you that. Issues related to family or anything else can actually be impediments in lovemaking. Anyways it's a fact that with time not making love every night is normal because the animal instinct dies out. But if this extends to months, then it is not normal. It's the shared emotions and feelings that bind couples together. A cuddle can actually be very powerful.
It must be known to you, when your partner is sad and happy. You can smell any future trouble even if their bad mood is not because of your actions. Just be attentive of the various signs and signals of a break up. You might be single again before you actually realize and then keep introspecting about what happened! - 30292
1) You are being ignored by your partner.
This does not mean that your partner is not talking to you. Loosing interest in the other person and not worrying about how they are or their where abouts, is the point that I am trying to make. It's almost like two ships that are passing by each other, and so may be now you need to work on your love life.
So stop here and contemplate why is your partner ignoring you? You probably forgot their birthday or some other special event? Are you loving your partner enough these days? Is there a possibility of they feeling neglected? These could be reactions to earlier events also. Although this may be their viewpoint, but you should be understanding enough and make them feel happy for the sake of love.
Surprise them with a meal out and talk about what the problem is. Try to ask them why are they grumpy and for heaven sake phrase that nicely? It could be a totally different problem that they are worried about and not your relationship. Communication is not always what it should be like in a relationship, but one has to talk. It might just lead you somewhere.
2) Your partner is not interested to go out with you or see you.
You should be warned if suddenly your lover is behaving in a very busy manner and is unavailable for you. And so you need to find out why they are avoiding you because there will be a reason for that also. You can't be a doormat or worst a bedmat. Please take these signals seriously, otherwise you might be reading a breakup letter soon!
3) Distance is being maintained by your partner in the bedroom
Although sex might just be a three letter word it could be hugely problematic. Any couple who has spent a long time together will tell you that. Issues related to family or anything else can actually be impediments in lovemaking. Anyways it's a fact that with time not making love every night is normal because the animal instinct dies out. But if this extends to months, then it is not normal. It's the shared emotions and feelings that bind couples together. A cuddle can actually be very powerful.
It must be known to you, when your partner is sad and happy. You can smell any future trouble even if their bad mood is not because of your actions. Just be attentive of the various signs and signals of a break up. You might be single again before you actually realize and then keep introspecting about what happened! - 30292
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