Your ex ended things with you. They felt ignored or betrayed or mad or sad and they hit the eject button. Happens to couples all the time.
You want them back. Well, it can be done. How to get them back depends on why you broke up. If you wronged them, you need a different strategy than if they just aren't that into you anymore.
However, there is one thing to understand that will help you to get your ex back into your life if it is at all possible. Because of what you did or what happened between you, their heart if full of negative feelings towards you.
Yes that sounds too obvious, but it is important. They have bad feelings filling up their heart towards you. To get them back you must help them to change these negative emotions. Can you?
Yes! You don't have to be a trained counselor to work with people's feelings effectively. You can help your ex to change their negative feelings.
There's several ways to help people to resolve negative feelings. One popular method we have all used already. And that is "getting things off our chests." We meet a friend for a drink, vent about our relationship or work, and feel better.
You can use this same method to help get your ex back. Instead of apologizing and fast talking to get them back, listen to them! Ask them how they feel about what went wrong and then let them vent!
Just make them feel understood as they vent. Don't argue or attack or defend your past actions. Let them dump. Just a few venting episodes can help them to get all those bad feelings off their chest and out of their system, making room to consider taking you back. - 30292
You want them back. Well, it can be done. How to get them back depends on why you broke up. If you wronged them, you need a different strategy than if they just aren't that into you anymore.
However, there is one thing to understand that will help you to get your ex back into your life if it is at all possible. Because of what you did or what happened between you, their heart if full of negative feelings towards you.
Yes that sounds too obvious, but it is important. They have bad feelings filling up their heart towards you. To get them back you must help them to change these negative emotions. Can you?
Yes! You don't have to be a trained counselor to work with people's feelings effectively. You can help your ex to change their negative feelings.
There's several ways to help people to resolve negative feelings. One popular method we have all used already. And that is "getting things off our chests." We meet a friend for a drink, vent about our relationship or work, and feel better.
You can use this same method to help get your ex back. Instead of apologizing and fast talking to get them back, listen to them! Ask them how they feel about what went wrong and then let them vent!
Just make them feel understood as they vent. Don't argue or attack or defend your past actions. Let them dump. Just a few venting episodes can help them to get all those bad feelings off their chest and out of their system, making room to consider taking you back. - 30292
About the Author:
You can learn more about the Immediate Reconnect Strategies to get your ex back in a course about Get Your Ex Back In Hours. Lexi Delane teaches relationship and emotional intelligence courses and you can get the free course 7 Vital Relationship Insights You Never Learned In School here at Love Relationship Advice .
